As for the other issue, I made a choice not to discuss it further with my boss until sometime next week. Time and distance will do me good.
Came home from work and decided to crawl back on the horse that throwed me. Except she was head-bobbing lame when I took her out of the barn! Inez was not in road-ready shape. Actually tore her up a bit on Monday during our fall-fest and had to go to the LBS to get her a chiropractic adjustment - the seat had ended up pointing north north east, the back break on the left side was sticking and her levers were askew. I was a little embarrassed but everyone at the LBS was very encouraging - but all of them learned to ride clipless at a very young age!
Anyway, after that rode for an hour or so with no further incidents. Clipped in and out effortlessly about a bazillion times - but the problem isn't in the doing, it's in the remembering!
Take good care of yourself. Be kind to others. Get Adjusted.