Friday, November 30, 2012
I am trying to determine if this makes me judgmental or just making a decision to surround myself with a certain kind of energy? Do I just sit in it and learn something from it or is the lesson that I get to make choices about whom I spend time with? I do know that I don't care for Mary (the bring-along friend) at all. She was giving me some lip about not drinking last night and choosing to drink coffee. So Valerie pitches in to tell Mary that I'm drinking coffee because we are at a Mexican restaurant and that I always order coffee in order not to eat all the chips, that I have all of the self-discipline, that I used to be really fat, etc. Lord I know she meant well, but if I wanted to share my particular story with Mary, well, I'd have given her the url to this website ;-). I'm thinking that these whole deals are getting comedically worse until I decide how/when to pull the plug. I'm looking how to extricate myself without undue drama and coming off looking like a judgmental drama queen.
Take good care of yourself. Be kind to others. Don't Get On The Drama-Go-Round.