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So cut to yesterday, and Bachelor #2 (name courtesy of Shelley). The old fashioned plan worked beautifully. He did respond to my friend, was interested in meeting me and she forwarded to me his email address, which was three letters (I assumed his initials) and the digits 1949. Red Flag. The profile said he was 57. Turns out, he's 63. He doesn't look it from his pictures, I mean, he's an avid cyclist and looks great. His explanation is that he's in great shape and he's been blessed with great genetics and the women his age were "by and large, scary". So under the heading of will lie when it's convenient to do so, we have Bachelor #2. Gut says Nope and I am listening. It feels good to be dealing from an integrated position - where everything - mind, body, spirit are in alignment and I don't have to fight intra-self battles.
ETA: Appropos link.
Take good care of yourself. Be kind to others. It's worth repeating - Go With Your Gut.